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Hi all I am sadly one of those guys in the most unfortunate position in so much as all my adult life I have adored a stocking clad leg however my fiancee of 7 years refuses to wear them i am mystified by this and spend every second of my day trying to catch a glimpse of stocking top.Having recently found this site which is proving to be a life saver I wondered if there are any ladies or couples who would accept some products from the SHQ shop as a gift from me, you see not only do I miss the pleasure of seeing my beloved in nylons I miss the thrill of choosing them and purchasing them so if you have your eye on a product let me know and I will buy it for you, no catch nothing expected in return
leglover
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Sat, 08 March 2008 17:02   |
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Goodness me! how deep are your pockets!
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Sat, 08 March 2008 17:31   |
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deep enough would you like something
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Sat, 08 March 2008 20:00   |
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Gosh, it does sound a little too good to be true!
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Sat, 08 March 2008 20:26   |
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Sounds like one of those foreign lotteries,waiting on someone to add"send no money now".
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Sat, 08 March 2008 20:39   |
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There must be a catch, or are we being old cynics. Gift horse and mouth springs to mind. See what you have started now, a queue, with the possibility of a cat fight
A man with deep pockets. Notice he didn't say deep deep pockets though !! Lovely idea, where do we sign up
Paul and Les xx
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Sat, 08 March 2008 21:40   |
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Well now , I know Kimmy has her eye on several pairs of nylons and at least three suspender belts , no seriously its a lovely offer my friend count us in and we may do some pictures for you
Have a good weekend
Andy n Kimmy
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Sat, 08 March 2008 21:47   |
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Thanks for the offer ... but my partner and I can afford to buy all the stockings she needs ... and at times when money's tight ... she manages, rather than being beholding to / or taking advantage of anybody
I'm sure you'll find plenty takers though
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Sat, 08 March 2008 22:21   |
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Dirk I am so pleased for you 
... who would want to be beholding to you anyway I am sure this member will fulfil his need by supplying other members with some products , for once why don't you accept the offer gracefully and not be so condecsending... .
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Sat, 08 March 2008 22:57   |
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Blimey Dirk,
Take a happy pill my man , its the weekend relax and have good time and for once say something nice
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Sat, 08 March 2008 23:04   |
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| No trousers please wrote on Sat, 08 March 2008 22:57 | Blimey Dirk,
Take a happy pill my man , its the weekend relax and have good time and for once say something nice
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OK NT ... I love you
...and ASDA too of course .... for providing the bottle of Jameson's that I'm easing my way through right now
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Sat, 08 March 2008 23:50   |
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Thank you very much, but I have more than enough stockings to keep me to the end of time at the moment and have just bought another suspender belt which has proved very good.
I'm sure there are more deserving (and less well off) ladies around! I couldn't accept because you'd expect me to provide pictures of me wearing the aforementioned 'stuff' and my job sort of doesn't accept anything like that.
Quite why you have a fiance of 7 years who doesn't like wearing stockings, when you have a stockings fetish is something I don't understand but there we are. If I were you, I'd put the lot on Ebay and get some money back.
And enjoy this particular website.... especially the stockings section.
http://vintage2.sultryserver.com/
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Sun, 09 March 2008 00:41   |
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Fortunately with the SHQ shop, gifts are very easily sent to fellow SHQ members, where the address is known only by SHQ and the recipient, and not the giver. It seems like a very innocent offer.
Perhaps LL4U has been with his fiancee for 7 years, but they were only engaged a few weeks ago. And of course there are many people who have been engaged but not married for many years, or simply together but not married for many years, and then they end up getting engaged/married for tax purposes (in the US, there's a great tax benefit for married people compared to non-married people). It is a curious question as to this (possibly) long engagement, but maybe it's not as big a concern as one might think.
Although I haven't had Jameson in many years (I prefer single malt Scotch but probably haven't had one in a couple of years), it would be my privilege and honor to sit with Dirk and have a drink and hopefully enjoy an ashtray as well. Maybe some good tunes (including the entire Strangeways Here We Come album) playing in the background. You can figure out what we'd be depositing into the ashtray
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Mike
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Sun, 09 March 2008 00:45   |
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| leglover4u wrote on Sat, 08 March 2008 07:10 | Hi all I am sadly one of those guys in the most unfortunate position in so much as all my adult life I have adored a stocking clad leg however my fiancee of 7 years refuses to wear them i am mystified by this and spend every second of my day trying to catch a glimpse of stocking top.
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I assume this isn't a literal every second, but maybe it's time to get some good pornography (erotica, etc) so you can get your stocking top glimpses and then not worry so much about it.
And I wouldn't mind a pair of the largest-size Eleganti Manhattan heels in sheer black from the TAM site. SHQ have my address information in their system.
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Mike
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Sun, 09 March 2008 19:52   |
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so much supposition so much angst but best of all so much support dont judge my pockets by your own secondly i did not say every one next whoever said it i never asked for pics in return for your information the first person to reply via a pm was polite offered pics of his fabulous wife asked for a pair of stockings and said he would send pics you know who you are they are on the way he will confirm I did not ask please in future positve comments only not your guess work to all others thanks for your support
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Mon, 10 March 2008 11:18   |
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I hope you can find someone to lavish your generosity on! Just be careful!
Jenna xxx
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Mon, 10 March 2008 12:25   |
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| leglover4u wrote on Sun, 09 March 2008 19:52 | so much supposition so much angst but best of all so much support dont judge my pockets by your own secondly i did not say every one next whoever said it i never asked for pics in return for your information the first person to reply via a pm was polite offered pics of his fabulous wife asked for a pair of stockings and said he would send pics you know who you are they are on the way he will confirm I did not ask please in future positve comments only not your guess work to all others thanks for your support
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Good luck with your request, but one request in return - please punctuate your sentences. Even bad punctuation (such as mine) is less of a headache to read than none at all.
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Mon, 10 March 2008 13:30   |
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Good luck with your generous offer!
I hope that you get many takers and that they do the decent thing by letting you have at least one picture whilst wearing your gift!
In this world people think that you don't get 'owt for nowt' but in reality once in a while there comes along someone with a geniune generosity!
I'm with you in the pleasure of buying and giving gifts without the expectation of anything in return!
Well done that man!
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Mon, 10 March 2008 14:15   |
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i can see that this could be a genuine, but unusual offer.
If someone says "Sure i'll have a pair of Gio's / Eleganti / whatever" would you only send the once, or would you take this as an open offer to send more in the future without asking ?
People - They never cease to confuse me with the things they get upto !
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Mon, 10 March 2008 16:02   |
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I want lingerie, nylons, heels and chocolate-you can pop them all into the glove box of the Range Rover when you send that round too!
Jenna xxx
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Mon, 10 March 2008 16:16   |
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Be serious Jenna The range rover is a little over the top
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Mon, 10 March 2008 19:19   |
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so many nice comments on pms a few minds have changed especialy the one who publicly say one thing and privatly request a gift to you all i will consider each on its merits but glad things have calmed down I will stay here its a nice place..............I am on holiday for a week so please be patient i will reply to all sent pms next week
ps and the comment about grammer puntuation i write in a hurry sometime on a blackburry with very small keys........speak in a week dont overload me with pms till im back first gift is on its way take care.........and gents be proud of your ladies remember they look good but inside they feel good cherish it
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Mon, 10 March 2008 21:38   |
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With you on that Jenna,
Although a six series BMW would suffice here
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Fri, 14 March 2008 12:43   |
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Hi everyone hows it going,is it just me or has anyone else had an awfull cold???
any way we are having a well deserved few days off have been out for some nice lunches and a night in a comfy hotel sad to report tights are still order of the day so no change
we are in central London this weekend for st patricks day parade on sunday if anyone else is there showing let me know
for those who requested gifts a few are on there way to you hope you like still looking at the other sensible requests
had a great lunch last weekend with friends whose wife was showing a lovely set of lace top black stockings and black suspenders a few heads were turned in the bar and was given a close look later so thanks to D and M it was magic
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Fri, 14 March 2008 18:24   |
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| leglover4u wrote on Sat, 08 March 2008 19:10 | Hi all I am sadly one of those guys in the most unfortunate position in so much as all my adult life I have adored a stocking clad leg however my fiancee of 7 years refuses to wear them i am mystified by this and spend every second of my day trying to catch a glimpse of stocking top.Having recently found this site which is proving to be a life saver I wondered if there are any ladies or couples who would accept some products from the SHQ shop as a gift from me, you see not only do I miss the pleasure of seeing my beloved in nylons I miss the thrill of choosing them and purchasing them so if you have your eye on a product let me know and I will buy it for you, no catch nothing expected in return
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I wearing stockings is such an issue for you why marry a woman who "refuses" to wear them...she doesn't sound very loving and understanding if she can't even put on a pair of stockings now and then for the man who is willing to give her his heart and life in marriage!
N.
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Sat, 15 March 2008 11:13   |
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respect and tolerance has to be the foundation for a relationship
to impose my wishes would negate any pleasure as it must be a shared one...........dictatoship is an unpleasent regime
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Sun, 16 March 2008 13:08   |
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Just curious, was your wife there at the luncheon as well, and for the part of the close look later? Did it give her encouragement or interest of trying out stockings again, especially knowing how they make you feel?
x
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| leglover4u wrote on Fri, 14 March 2008 05:43 |
had a great lunch last weekend with friends whose wife was showing a lovely set of lace top black stockings and black suspenders a few heads were turned in the bar and was given a close look later so thanks to D and M it was magic
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Tue, 18 March 2008 17:17   |
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not sure if Ive just done the best thing ever or the worst thing ever tell you all later................lets just say st patricks day beer and an honest comment or two
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Tue, 18 March 2008 21:20   |
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HI Leg Lover
Your message has obviously caused a bit of a stir!
Going on your last message this might not be appropriate, but whether your fiance likes or doesn't like stockings, do you like them enough to wear the (obviously) large collection yourself? If so, would your fiance object or disown you for doing so?
Regardless of motivations for giving away stockings etc or the angst you have between you and her and her reluctance to wear stockings at all, the question that springs to my mind is is this about the stockings or something else? Are you ultimately happy with her? Only you will know.
Ultimately, you have to be true to yourself.
dark tan
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Tue, 18 March 2008 21:32   |
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Am I in the wrong place.....I thought this was a stockings forum not an amateur psychologists forum!
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Tue, 18 March 2008 22:00   |
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| MontyB wrote on Tue, 18 March 2008 21:32 | Am I in the wrong place.....I thought this was a stockings forum not an amateur psychologists forum!
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Ah .. classic signs of denial ... a need perhaps, to change the subject from an uncomfortable part of your life .... Mocking the thread itself, in order to shift control of the dominant situation to a safe retreatable mental haven .... Juxtaposing that humour with sarcasm, by way of ....
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Wed, 19 March 2008 22:44   |
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I am far to tired to answer this but to the amateur phycos ...thanks monty.......if you could only see the pms I get dirk and others no one negative no one judgeing me I need to say he who throw the first stone.............any way to the rest of my new friends I was hoping to supply you with the weekends turn up and my bold step however to you all who judge and condem look at where you are its another con I fear, I have sent 4 gifts you know who you are I pm d you 3 shq cant find your address 4th one due to an error the item is out of stock should not have been allowed to order and can I wait 4 weeks for it..............basicly good old shq dont work, direct your protest to the management on behalf of them I am sorry to all of you I promised goods
ps the money has been taken shq any answers
monty and all others who pm cheers
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Wed, 19 March 2008 22:58   |
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leglover4u,
I have to say this does not sound like the SHQ I know. If there are any problems with an order they will bend over backwards to help. If an item is sold out, it is understandable, and if someone is not prepared to wait for an item they have been offered for free, then I find it sad. SHQ replace any item you are not happy with, even if you have worn said item. Not many companies in the world offer a service like that (especially lingerie) and I commend David and his ladies for being top class when it comes to customer services.
I must admit I find your posts a tad difficult to understand and follow as everything is written in lower case and there is no punctuation. So if I have misunderstood you ... please accept my apologies.
LL
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Thu, 20 March 2008 16:41   |
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| leglover4u wrote on Wed, 19 March 2008 22:44 |
if you could only see the pms I get dirk and others no one negative no one judgeing me I need to say he who throw the first stone.............any way to the rest of my new friends
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Well of course you'll get nice positive PM's off folk who are scrounging a few pairs of stockings off you .. and you'll have many ' new friends ' too ..... ' Never give a sucker an even break ' ... wasn't that W.C Fields ?
I hope you do make some friends ... but ' buying 'em ' isn't the answer ( and you've still not replied whether your fiancee of 7 years knows you're buying stockings for complete strangers to model for you ... then again, I know the answer already ...... )
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Fri, 21 March 2008 13:24   |
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Long Legs
To explain the problem is 2 fold, first of all sending anonymous sometimes does not work as SHQ cant find address this has in my case been compounded by what I am told is a stock control problem where the site allows you to buy out of stock items, as a further test I ordered 3 more itemS to be sent to me only one has arrived 2 again out of stock ,SHQ have apologised and the items should bE 2 or 3 weekS.
So a bit disappointing as thus far it seems no one has got the gifts, I guess sometimes things go wrong but apology accepted and will wait
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Sun, 23 March 2008 22:18   |
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| Quote | hope you do make some friends ... but ' buying 'em ' isn't the answer ( and you've still not replied whether your fiancee of 7 years knows you're buying stockings for complete strangers to model for you ... then again, I know the answer already ....
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What a great stick with which to beat your fiancee of 7 years over the head with!
I can just imagine the answer he'd give when his intended finds out.
"Yes, but I buy stockings for other women because YOU don't wear them!"
Followed by..... you know the answer to that one.
You've got it. "So, to stop this happening in the future. Wear the stockings for me!"
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Sat, 29 March 2008 12:16   |
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Hi every one due to SHQ supply and delivery problems I know of only one person who has gift so far(glad you liked them) has anyone else recieved any thing and if I told you stuff was on way and not got to you yet can you let me know who you are 56 quids worth is still missing.......thanks
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Sat, 29 March 2008 14:49   |
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The Range Rover hasn't turned up yet, either!
Jenna xxx
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Sat, 29 March 2008 16:24   |
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This guy is genuine. A nice pair of RHTs arrived for MrsB and he asked for nothing in return.
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Sat, 29 March 2008 17:13   |
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| MontyB wrote on Sat, 29 March 2008 16:24 | This guy is genuine. A nice pair of RHTs arrived for MrsB and he asked for nothing in return.
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That's the best kind of person to take advantage of I suppose ....
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Sat, 29 March 2008 17:33   |
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Oh well, left out again
Still I have a special man who treats me all the time
Have fun all of you.
Les and Paul
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Fri, 04 April 2008 17:10   |
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During a rather drunken evening a few weeks ago my gf got the drinks from the bar as she returned her T****S snagged on the table and tore, she went into one and being rather merry I said who cares t****s are disgusting.......I added all men hate them well my brain said how did I let that out my mouth, but rather than a torrent of abuse a conversation started, to my suprise she said it would be impossible to wear stockings every day as they always fall down.
Now remember my brain and mouth are not working together I said thats because you dont buy the right suspender belts
to my amazement she said 4 stupid little straps are not practical, so I said then buy 6 8 or 10 strap she said you dont know what your talking about you buy them ill wear them they dont exist.........................now remember shes 10 yrs younger than me and is of the T***** generation...................she then adds stockings cost a fortune and throws open a challenge.
you find them order them and if they dont cost a fortune and I can work in them I will wear them and this is the best bit............she bet me 100 quid I could not
so good people of SHQ what do I do, I have been starved of my beloved stockings for years a 100 pound wager has been set and I have purchased a wonderful pair of french ffs and a 6 strap...............
shall I come out and give them to her and chance all the questions of why I know how to get them or shall I let it lie and forget the bet.
My fear is she will try and still not convert from the disgusting t word and if I dont I will never know friends help me decide.
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Fri, 11 April 2008 10:52   |
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Just wanted to say a big thanks
Lovely new stockings arrived today
A gift from a charming man.
Thanks xxxx
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Fri, 25 April 2008 13:03   |
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I would suggest going for it, if you plan to marry this girl then surely your years together would be much enhanced by her indulging your preference, especially when her reason for not wearing stockings is entirely based on misconception.
You don't have to immediately (or indeed ever, should you choose) tell your girl that you had offered to buy others stockings.
You could say that you aquired your knowledge from the internet and similar sites to SHQ, though should she ever browse the forum, it would be best if she knew beforehand. An admiration for seeing stockings on women is a perfectly reasonable excuse to have picked up this kind of knowledge.
Best of luck
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Fri, 25 April 2008 18:30   |
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i love wearing stockings the works infact.the more the better
if it pleases you i will gladly have a gifts from you please.
i will of course have some picts taken of me wearing whatever you send me.
you are such a kind man xxx Tracey xxx
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Mon, 28 April 2008 02:03   |
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I'd love some free stockings for my girlfriend. Normally wouldn't ask but things have been tight and supplies are running low. She's currently finishing Grad school and we're getting by on one income. We'll certainly send you some pics.
B
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Sun, 04 May 2008 23:54   |
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Dirk - get a life - i'm in a similar siuation - couldn't find a lady whohad the same interest's and my wife won't wear, first wife did and loved it, it was great till she left one day.
Don't be so pathetic and judgemental - you talk a load of rubbish - if you've not been ther don't judge !!!!!!!!!!
A genuine gift from leglover - what a sweet idea - there's no generosity in the world anymore - dirk your so sinical - your loss mate
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Mon, 05 May 2008 00:26   |
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A BIG THANK YOU from MrsAT
LOved the fishnets
Some pics to follow
Regards
AT
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Mon, 05 May 2008 12:05   |
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| miller wrote on Sun, 04 May 2008 23:54 | Dirk - get a life - i'm in a similar siuation - couldn't find a lady whohad the same interest's and my wife won't wear, first wife did and loved it, it was great till she left one day.
Don't be so pathetic and judgemental - you talk a load of rubbish - if you've not been ther don't judge !!!!!!!!!!
A genuine gift from leglover - what a sweet idea - there's no generosity in the world anymore - dirk your so sinical - your loss mate
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A typical message from a second-time loser I'm afraid .....
If you are so obcessed with having a wife who wears stockings ...why go and marry someone who doesn't / won't wear 'em ? This is what puts you on a par with the author of this thread - he's similarly obcessed, yet he's been with his fiancee for 7 years - and again, she's another who doesn't satify his fetish
What are you guys on? You'd rather spend money sending stockings to complete strangers, than get a partner yourself who would gladly wear 'em - so you're hardly in a position to call me pathetic - you're the ones livin' in cloud cuckooland ....
Still ...the ' freeloaders ' in this world are no doubt eternally grateful that there are mugs like you around - they can laugh all the way to the bank and use the ' stockings fund ' money thus saved to have a nice drink ... at your expense ...so YOUR loss mate, not mine ...
MY money spent on stockings goes where it should ..on MY partner's legs, not some strangers ... and no - she wouldn't understand if I was subsidising other women's legs as well ... and nor will your partners either miller / leglover4you if they find out about your ' secret lifestyle ' I might well be cynical .. but at least i'm honest with the lady in my life ..something you two cannot say about your own relationships ......
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